When you like somebody, It's not easy to NOT obsess over what he thinks about you. The truth is, guys just don't care and notice when you stress about it! Yes, there are lots of things guys care about, like food, football, call of duty, and food(food again, obviously!), and girls, of course: how often you txt or call, what your friends think about them, and (shhh, this is secret) if you like their hair. But sometimes there are other things dudes just really don't care about, like---
1. If you're a good dancer. Dance like no one is watching The guy you're crushing on probably just feels as self-conscious as you do about showing everyone his moves. Just let loose and have fun, it gives him some permission to do the same.
2. You forgot to put on mascara. Since guys don't like it when you're wearing enough makeup to cover a village, they're probably not gonna notice when you forget mascara. Most guys would probably prefer the #IWokeUpLikeThis look, so embrace it, girl!
3. How perfect you look in your selfies. It doesn't matter that you don't look like Audrina Patridge in every single selfie. It's fun to post silly pics. It shows you're a funny, awesome girl to hang around!
4. Your "geeky" obsession with Harry Potter. So who cares if you still geek out over Harry Potter books you've read 18,000 times? He might do it too! He might not get it, but if a guy's into to you, he'll think your encyclopedia knowledge of a magical world just adds to your charm. What's hot is having enough confidence to own who you are and what you love.
5. If you change your hair. #Guys. You could go bald and most guys wouldn't notice unless you point it out. That DOES NOT mean he's not into you, or he doesn't like your new hair do.
6. If your good at flirting. He's probably just as nervous as you are! Besides, it's not like there's a right or wrong way to flirt anyway. Everybody has awkward crush moments (Including me!), but you laugh about them while it's happening, it'll help get rid of the tension and show him you don't take yourself or him to seriously.
7. If your not into the same music or movies. You don't have to be into the same exact things to be into each other, ever heard of the saying "opposites attract"? Part of the fun in getting to know each other is learning about and doing fun, new stuff together.
8. If you sweat. You. Are. HUMAN! And guys usually love girls who are into sports, so don't be afraid to show that you've got serious skills in the gym.
9. Whether you ask them out. Yes, some dudes like it when you play hard to get, but guys also like a girl who's not afraid to show them that she's into him. Confidence is always hot.
10. How you dress. Guys love sweatpants and hoodies as much as you do. You don't have to be wearing a sexy cocktail dress to get his attention. Being a little mysterious and most importantly, confident is way more sexy anyway. wear what makes YOU feel hot.
11. If you txt him first. Guys do sometimes get nervous about making the first move. Sending him a cute, flirtatious text first to tell him he won't get rejected (A MAJOR reason guys won't make a move) without coming off as desperate.
12. What you order at dinner. Don't have ANY shame in your game when you order a big burger. Guys love to eat and they love girls who do, too!
Did i miss anything? I'm gonna start doing stuff like this-- tips and fun facts and book reviews movie reviews, to kinda boost my blog a bit! Thanks
This is an article from Seventeen magazine that I have modified so its not copyright. ALL OF THIS BELONGS TO SEVENTEEN MAGAZINE. except for my modifications:)
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